little sādhanas
Yoga is not āsana. It isn’t a class. Yoga is about you, finding you, through you. One of the real beauties of yoga is its diversity of practices: there are practices for your mind, practices for your heart, and practices for your spirit. Many of the practices my mentors have given me are small little reflections I’m supposed to weave into my days for several months. They may be mantra, a journal prompt, an ongoing reflection or a thing to read or chant. They have often been assigned inquiries into breath patterns, habits of mind, and underlying mood. I take it and work with it for a month and then go back to my mentor. After several months, what I have accomplished and learned is profound. It blows yoga class out of the water.
Here are a couple of practices I have been given over the years. They invoke Santosha. I was taught that Santosha, which is one of Patanjali’s Yamas or ethics, and Bhramacharya which is one of the Niyamas or personal observances, are two sides of the same coin. They are related and in relationship with one another. Santosha is often left as ‘gratitude’. Gratitude is a deeply provocative spiritual practice, to be sure. The nuances of being content in an imperfect world are something we can and should investigate personally and in depth. But I think it’s also interesting to know that Santosha isn’t exactly ‘gratitude’ or ‘contentment’: the word santosha is a combination of sam (complete, perfected) and tosh (acceptance). I don’t know about you, but ‘complete acceptance’ means different things to me than ‘contentment’ does.
Further: we tend to internalize and abstract this practice, but in the context of the sūtras at least Santosha isn’t internal; it’s a relational practice. Which changes things. It isn’t so much “I’m content with my lot” as it is I accept this work, completely. I accept who I am. I accept you. I accept this world, and today as it is, and what we’ve got in front of us.
Also important to note, here: in the context of Patanjali’s Yoga Sutras, Santosha (indeed, any of the Yama-niyama or eight limbs) are not a good in and of themselves. Santosha is not an end but a means to greater balance and more skilled action in the world. Contentment isn’t ‘truth’. Contentment is a practice that keeps us in balance so that we can be more truthful. The real goal is to be more engaged and less attached in the world. Not contentment because this is as good as it gets or the way things are are fair: contentment because if we want to do anything about it, we’ll need discernment and clarity.
Brahmacharya is often translated as restraint, specifically sexual restraint. It means celibacy when we’re talking about monastic orders. Because none of us are monastics, the whole concept is often dismissed or is watered down to ‘moderation in all things’. Again, sure and pretty enough, but nothing I can really work with. But again, the etymology of the word can help us figure out what Brahmacharya means in its own right and for ourselves: brahma is the creative divine, the creative and generative and alive principle; Charya means to go with or be a devotee of. Our word car is related. Who is driving? my mentor Saraswati used to ask: you? or the divine? Just as Santosha takes on some spin when we realize it is intended to be a relational teaching, Brahmacharya gets interesting when we realize it has nothing to do with others, but is an internal question. A relationship we have with ourselves and creativity, will, self-esteem, spirit.
Give each one a whirl, no yoga mat required. Repeat 500 times. Take some notes, write down any questions or observations and bring them to a teacher. Develop an ongoing conversation and path with this stuff. Also note: yoga isn’t magic. This works because it gives you an assignment, some direction, but you have to hand the assignment in and get feedback, have a place to process.
do a morning practice based on 2 sun salutations + what your body mind needs today. The question here is not burpees or strength or 45 minutes of flow. It’s an invitation to figure out how to create space for you and the direction of your life, before the ‘day’ begins. It’s ceremony, not a workout. Aim for daily.
do an evening reflection practice: draw the eight limbs of yoga as a circle (if you’ve studied with me long enough, you’ve done this somewhere or other. Not a list, a circle: Yama relationship with others; niyama relationship with yourself; asana relationship with body; pranayama relationship with breath; pratyahara tuning the senses; dharana focused attention; dhyana sitting with what comes back to you, awareness of obstacles and gifts; samadhi integrity. use that as an evening journal or art prompt. How was your day?
Feet and legs
Bones
With Heart
winter and dark can be hard seasons on all our levels. Hope, holy days, grief, and just plain old physical and emotional difficulties get thicker this time of year. As we’re still in pandemic, that is more true than ever before. These sādanas each work with gentle backbends, mantra (vagal tone anybody?), and prāṅāyama to keep your heart fire going.